Confidence after divorce: Attract your future wife
December 22, 2007 11:38 pm Uncategorized
I see a lot of great guys with lots to offer to a future wife. Yet, they have no luck when it comes to getting women to talk to them, let alone go date them? What they lack is a clear roadmap on how to understand women and regain their confidence after divorce.
These days, girls are pretty hard to impress. Men often feel overwhelmed. As a single man trying to attract a future wife, there are a few things you can do to gain an edge.
It’s all about being more confident. Nothing will lure your future wife more than self-confidence. Honestly. Women want a strong man. Someone who’s sure self-assured and acts that way. I’m not talking about being mean or arrogant, I mean self confident. If you’re feeling worthless, you’ll give off a vibe with your body language, and that’s NOT a feature that turns women on.
Think about it. There’s a girl sitting alone at the end of the bar who isn’t smiling, won’t make eye contact and has nothing to say. Is this someone you want to be with? Of course not. But, that same woman… If she’s smiling, looking around and begins a conversation with you when you approach. Is this someone you’d want to know better? The same is true for men.
Body language speaks louder then words. You need to exude self confidence if you want to attract women. Being more confident will create the instant attraction that will hook your future wife.
There is also something to be said about “faking till you make it”. Ever meet someone who always seems to get hot girls? Keep an eye on him next time you go out. How is he acting differently than you? Does he have any traits that are easily copied? I’m not talking about pick-up lines. I mean more subtle thing, like posture. How does he stand? How does he talk to women he approaches? Try to model yourself after someone who’s successful. This is a sure way to regain your confidence after divorce, and to become more successful yourself.
Humor is also great for attracting women. But this can be a delicate operation. If you come off as a clown, you’ll be turning women off. If you can somehow find this balance, you’ll be successful. Most women yearn for a man who can make her laugh. For some, it can be the first thing that attracts them.
Simply being more confident and improving your sense of humor will yield results quickly. If you can manage to maintain your confidence after divorce, you’ll find your future wife in no time.
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