Assertiveness: getting the girl
September 17, 2007 9:00 pm UncategorizedThere she is. You want her. She’s giving you all the right signals. She’s flirting really hard. She clearly wants you.
But you don’t quite know how to get the girl of your dreams to take the next step. So you bide your time. An hour, a day, a week a month… whatever. You finally make your move and…. she rejects you.
Hunh? What happened here?
That’s a bit of complicated issue. But, I hope this article helps.
Today I spoke to a guy who used to work at the major airport in my city, and he told me an interesting story. I really hope it’s true. But either way, it really illustrates what separates Alpha males from the other 98% of society.
I’d really like to hear from the girls on this topic. THIS is one of the best pick-up tips I can give you.
A few years ago, there was a baggage handler who worked in my friend’s terminal. He absolutely despised his job, and the pay was crap. But this was the best job he could get.
Then one day, his hand got stuck in the conveyor, and it ripped the middle finger off his right hand.
Because this was a union job, he knew that he’d get $20,000 for the missing finger. He finally had his big break. With this money, he could go to school, get a degree and completely change his life for the better. He could finally live well enough to raise a family and provide for his kids.
As he looked down, there was blood squirting everywhere. And his finger was completely detatched. It was just hanging there by a piece of skin. All he had to do was yank it off and chuck it across the room where nobody would find it.
He took a deep breath and prepared himself.
But all of a sudden, a security guard grabs him and immediately starts first-aid treatment. They sent him to the hospital, where they successfully reattatched his finger. The doctors did such a great job that he was back at work handling baggage within less than a month.
How strong is your decision-making muscle? Train yourself to automatically make decisions as your default reaction.
The ability to make fast decisions and seize opportunities… This is one of the main factors that separates the average nice guy from the bad boy who always seems to be getting the girl.
And don’t worry about making mistakes. When you’re on your death bed, 90% of your regrets will be about things you didn’t do.


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Date: September 17, 2007 @ 10:09 pm
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A great article on how to be assertive around women you like….