Men`s Divorce Dating

Today, we’ve got a guest contributor. James Brito

Online dating is a multi-million dollar business, but for my money, I’d rather meet girls the natural way: out and about, in real-life situations. Not the bar, not the club. Just natural, fun ways that get both of you participating and talking about common interests and acquaintances.

Think that’s not possible? Au contraire. There are LOTS of great places to meet girls that don’t involve shelling out $75 a night for drinks or $30 just to get into a club. I met my girlfriend of the last two years on a tour through Berlin, and I know another guy who met his wife in his economics class. In both cases, we guys didn’t EXPECT anything to happen, and that was key. Remember, when you’re not looking, that’s when girls tend to show up! Expect the unexpected.

Besides this fact, girls LOVE to have a romantic story about how they met you. Believe me, they’d rather say that they met you in a one-in-a-million chance encounter in Paris than in a club, dancing to raunchy music. You have to appeal to their romantic sensibilities. Just look at all the Hollywood movies, like “Sleepless in Seattle”, where girls meet guys on the radio, on the Empire State Building, in places you generally WOULDN’T EXPECT TO MEET.

It’s a fundamental rule: Girls don’t want the everyday, the routine, the expected. They want the UNexpected, the UNlikely, the UNbelievable. They want something special they can tell all their friends, and that’s why looking-or rather, NOT actively looking-outside the regular venues is a winning idea.

So what are some places I recommend for meeting the love of your life? Well, of course you can’t HAVE the attitude that you’re looking; just play it cool, and be patient. I recommend the following five best places to meet women:

1. Abroad. While traveling solo can work, it’s even better to go on a tour. Instant access to lots of girls traveling alone (or with a friend), and wanting to find a man of their own. Tours are GREAT ways for meeting chicks. And no matter where you’re from, there are SO many benefits to going to a country carrying a foreign accent.

2. At work. I ONLY recommend this if you are not in the same exact office together; you need some distance between you in case things go south. NEVER go for a girl who works 5 feet away from you; it will just create too many problems. My best friend’s messy relationship with an office mate proves this! But I dated a girl who worked in another department, and the break-up was fine; no messy office problems, no anxiety in the workplace. So if the attraction is there, right along with the distance, work offers a bounty of potential mates.

3. Evening Classes. Doesn’t get much easier than this. Social network? Check. You’re in the class, you get to know people, you’re all it in together. Something in common with the girl? Duh. Double check! Easy conversations-talk about the class, your dreams, what you’re doing here, etc. There are many other advantages, as well, but I think you can see how classes are a great way to find a girl. The best ones are those that only last 5-10 weeks-that way if you do go out with a classmate and things go sour, you won’t have to see her for long afterwards!

4. Through friends and family. In a “Sex in America” study, it was found that roughly two-thirds of the marrying couples met through mutual friends, coworkers, or family members. Never underestimate the value of using your friends, family, and even work acquaintances and classmates to find you a special someone. The best example I can think of is my good friend Rick, who met his wife through mutual friends. The two have been madly in love for 6 years and married for just over one year, and it’s still going great. Clearly there is value in using your “human resources” to find a girlfriend, or even wife.

5. Random, unexpected public places. Often the Best places to meet women are created when you’re not looking. For example, on a night when I wasn’t even on the prowl, I met a girl I would date for two years while waiting for the NYC subway! And I met another girlfriend on a bus in Australia. You may only meet her for five minutes, but big things can happen from small moments. Life is crazy, so embrace the unpredictability of it all!

This should help all of you out there wanting to know how and where to meet more women. Good luck, and remember: the less you look, the more you find! Go to one of these places relaxed and not desperate, and you may not even have to look. Your dream girl might just come and find YOU.

About the Author:
James Brito, bestselling author of “How to Be Irresistible to Women” and “The Art of Impressing Women,” delves into the secrets of female attraction.

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There she is. You want her. She’s giving you all the right signals. She’s flirting really hard. She clearly wants you.

But you don’t quite know how to get the girl of your dreams to take the next step. So you bide your time. An hour, a day, a week a month… whatever. You finally make your move and…. she rejects you.

Hunh? What happened here?

That’s a bit of complicated issue. But, I hope this article helps.

Today I spoke to a guy who used to work at the major airport in my city, and he told me an interesting story. I really hope it’s true. But either way, it really illustrates what separates Alpha males from the other 98% of society.

I’d really like to hear from the girls on this topic. THIS is one of the best pick-up tips I can give you.

A few years ago, there was a baggage handler who worked in my friend’s terminal. He absolutely despised his job, and the pay was crap. But this was the best job he could get.

Then one day, his hand got stuck in the conveyor, and it ripped the middle finger off his right hand.

Because this was a union job, he knew that he’d get $20,000 for the missing finger. He finally had his big break. With this money, he could go to school, get a degree and completely change his life for the better. He could finally live well enough to raise a family and provide for his kids.

As he looked down, there was blood squirting everywhere. And his finger was completely detatched. It was just hanging there by a piece of skin. All he had to do was yank it off and chuck it across the room where nobody would find it.

He took a deep breath and prepared himself.

But all of a sudden, a security guard grabs him and immediately starts first-aid treatment. They sent him to the hospital, where they successfully reattatched his finger. The doctors did such a great job that he was back at work handling baggage within less than a month.

How strong is your decision-making muscle? Train yourself to automatically make decisions as your default reaction.

The ability to make fast decisions and seize opportunities… This is one of the main factors that separates the average nice guy from the bad boy who always seems to be getting the girl.

And don’t worry about making mistakes. When you’re on your death bed, 90% of your regrets will be about things you didn’t do.

Welcome to the Men’s Divorce Dating blog.

Once upon a time, you were well-socialized. You and your friends would go out every weekend and meet gorgeous women.

And whenever you had a question about women, you had this really cool friend who was experienced with girls. You could always count on this guy to give you the best advice. The real deal. None of this “Dr. Phil” crap.

Then you got into a relationship. As time went by, you slowly lost touch with all of your cool bachelor friends. Then all of a sudden, it’s 5 years later. You’re divorced and all alone.

You’re older, fatter, depressed. And you have nobody to turn to. You don’t need a therapist. You don’t need a relationship book.

You need your old player friends back.

You need someone who’s going to give you the real deal. You need a friend who won’t tell you what women want. (Because nobody really knows that) Instead, he’ll only tell you what they respond to. He’ll only tell you what works.

If you’ll let me, I’d like to be this friend. I understand your pain, and I have answers that will help you put the pieces back together.

Of course, maybe you already have a friend like this. But whenever you ask him a question, he’ll give you completely useless advice like “be confident” or “be a man”. How do you do that???

“Be a man” is great advice. But it’s useless unless you have a translator. And that’s where I come in.

I won’t tell you how to buy flowers. I won’t tell you how to write poems. I’ll only tell you how to get your perfect girlfriend, and make her addicted to your love.

And I’ll do it in a language you can understand.

So having said that, I’d like to welcome you to my new blog.

Subscribe to the feed and bookmark this page. You’ll be back. I’m sure of it.

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