Become a Player: the pursuit of beauty

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I’ve had the unique privilege of sharing time with many beautiful women in my life. And one of the most fertile times was one particular summer in my late teens. During the day, I worked as a magician for a series of summer camps. And at night, I worked as a magician in several local restaurants.

It was so easy. I didn’t even have to try. The camp councilors would compete for my attention. All I had to do was pick the ones I wanted. And nearly every night, I would come home from the restaurants with multiple phone numbers.

I wasn’t anything special. I was 30 lbs overweight. I wasn’t making a lot of money.

But I did have one advantage. I got to live my life for art.

When I was “on”, I was the boss of the show. And as the boss, it was my job to make sure everyone had a good time and played by my rules. When I performed, it was as if everyone was invited to this great party, and I was the host.

So how is this supposed to help you?

I want to show you how women are deeply attracted to men of leisure. They’re primarily attracted to lifestyle.

If you look around, most of the really hot women are dating guys with lots of free time. They’ll often be rich, students, or even unemployed… People with lots of free time will usually fill it with things that are fun and social. (The smart ones, anyways)

Of course, there’s slightly more to it than that.

Women are inexplicably drawn to (often self-destructive) men who will risk everything for the relentless pursuit of beauty. They want men who live with passion. They want a man who is a risk-taker. They want a man who gets things done, no matter what it takes.

If you really want to become a player, you need to start building a lifestyle for yourself. What are you passionate about? What excites you?

Most people will live their whole lives without being alive for a single day.

This video is a great example of the mindset required become a player.

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